"I should already be successful..."

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Summary:

• Ditching fantasy and accepting your reality
• The art of learning to love where you are 
• Why pain is your best teacher
• The inevitability of YOUR success
• Pitfalls of perfectionism
• Watch the video for the full training!
• If you’re not in love with where you are right now in life, then today’s training is non-negotiable! 

Transcript:

Have you ever felt that you should be further along than you are right now?!

If so… this is the episode for you!

Welcome to The Path To Mindset Mastery! My name is Brad Bizjack! I’m a Mindset Strategist and Coach, inspirational speaker, and creator of Appreciation Academy and I help online business owner’s breakthrough all the negative self-talk holding you back from your dreams so you can finally see the success you deserve! This is the weekly spot to break through everything that’s holding you back from the life you really want!

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This is your go-to guide when you're in the dark times and you don't know where to go or how to breakthrough. It's going to teach you how to master those limiting emotions instead of just praying they disappear… Imagine being able to get back to building your legacy in seconds. Imagine what that would do for you!

MY STORY: I wanted to be debt-free, (but if I'm being totally honest, I really wanted to feel like I was enough)! I remember thinking, what am I missing?!

Is there something going wrong that I'm missing? I can't seem to figure it out!

I'm doing everything right on paper. Why isn’t it working for me? It seemed like everyone else was flying by me and just crushing it.

So, I got myself a mindset coach and on our very first call, I remember it to this day (it just hit me). I was telling her about how I'm doing “all the things”.

I'm listening to all the podcasts!

I'm trying so hard!

Why isn't this working for me?!

She said to me…something SO simple and SO profound. It changed my life forever! She said, “Brad, You’re so attached to success that you're missing the whole point. You're missing the whole point of this entire journey. Until you learn to love where you are right now and appreciate everything about your life right now, you're going to find it very, very hard to get to your dreams because attachment does not align with what's next for your life.”

This changed my whole life!

I’m curious, have you ever felt that way? Like you’re supposed to be further along toward your goals than you are now?

Should you be debt-free?

Should you have more customers?

Should you have more sales?

This is all a sign that you're not happy where you already are!

There's a problem with this! When you're not happy where you already are, it slows down the energy to get to where you want to be. Think about what it puts out to the world when you're not happy and you're not okay…

What energy do your clients + prospects pick up on?!

They feel your desperate + helpless + panicked energy.

And do they want to join helpless + desperate + panicked?! Nope! Absolutely not!

Write this down: Seeing your current good is the fastest way to increase more good. What you need to accept is where you are now. Keep in mind acceptance of where you are doesn't mean that you want to stay there. It doesn't mean you're not compelled to go after a bigger future. It actually lights the fire under your ass to go after a big future!

Your debt situation is your debt situation.

Your banking account is your banking account.

Your business is where it is.

You can either hate it or you can accept it!

You can either enjoy the ride or be miserable for years.

YOU DECIDE.

Let me ask you a question... Doesn't this mindset cause you to focus more on the solution than the problem?! Of course, it does! Until you learn to appreciate where you are right now, you will never receive the lesson to move you to the next step.

The more you don't listen to life’s lessons, the louder they get!

When you start looking for the lessons, it's a sign that you've started to accept where you are. When you not only accept where you are (but take it a step further) and you’re grateful for where you are… all of a sudden the lessons come so much faster and you start learning quicker!!

Be grateful for where you are RIGHT NOW. You will never get this day, this moment back. Life is trying to tell you your next steps, but you have to listen and be grateful to know what they are.

Again, make sure to check out my Mindset First Aid Kit to help with any anxiety, panic, fear, overwhelm you’re feeling during this time!

My name is Brad Bizjack.

Remember to go out there today and every day and live your life with a genuine smile on your face. You are literally one mindset shift away from doing that. I'll see you next week!